“The only thing worse than a guilty perpetrator is a self righteous victim.” - Dan Cohen

One of the most difficult energies to transmute in a healing process is when self righteousness appears in an individual, family, culture or nation. Many of us are fully aware of forms of self righteous perpetration. One way this looks is when people do something evil thinking it’s the right thing to do because the nation, god or authority says so. But there’s another similarly detrimental form of self righteousness which is self righteous victimhood.

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Nick Werber
The Safest Presence for Healing: People Who Know What They Don't Know

We need both knowing and not knowing in order to be effective in what we do. If we hold that we know exactly what we’re doing at all times, we stop being open to seeing anomalies in our experience - which are part of the whole of every process. And if we do recognize something outside of our knowledge, we’re likely to act as if we understand it to maintain our ego. If this happens, we risk being heavy handed and screwing things up just to keep our act going.

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Nick Werber
Returning to Maha Rose For A Family Constellations Workshop: Work Money & the Soul

I'm excited to share that I'm returning to Maha Rose to lead a healing workshop devoted to the relationships we have with work and money. We'll examine the often overlooked ways our family and upbringing deeply shapes how we work, whether we save money or not, the types of jobs we are attracted to, and how we interact with our bosses or our clients/customers. From there, we'll move from insight to action and begin to connect to practical ways of shifting these patterns so that we are freer to connect with our intentions at work and outside of work.

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New Workshop: Work Money & the Soul at Maha Rose

I'm excited to share that I'm returning to Maha Rose to lead a healing workshop devoted to the relationships we have with work and money. We'll examine the often overlooked ways our family and upbringing deeply shapes how we work, whether we save money or not, the types of jobs we are attracted to, and how we interact with our bosses or our clients/customers. From there, we'll move from insight to action and begin to connect to practical ways of shifting these patterns so that we are freer to connect with our intentions at work and outside of work.

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Be Myself?

When I work with someone and they tell me "I wish I could just be myself" my next question usually is, "what version of yourself are you envisioning?" Sometimes people get attached to an idea that one version of who they are is 'true' while the others are false.

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Nick Werber
"Your Biology Becomes Your Biography"

For me this quote points to how our histories actually manifest within our bodies. One of the first questions I'll ask a client is "what is your relationship with your mother like?" It can be a pretty straightforward question but the implications of the answer are far reaching.

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Nick Werber
Family & Ancestry Healing At Maha Rose

I'm excited to announce I'll be returning to Maha Rose to lead a healing workshop on family and ancestry Sunday March 18th. The workshop will offer an opportunity for people to connect the dots within themselves and their lineage in a way they may never have before. From there, we'll move from insight to action and open our minds and bodies to resolutions that can profoundly shift our lives outside of the session.

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We Are All One?

"We are all one" is a spiritual and religious concept I've heard many times from many different sources. It can be an attractive idea to some and to others it sounds like meaningless woo woo. Regardless of which camp you sit in, the concept is something people say and spend hours meditating on because it isn't always obvious in our day to day lives. It's a nice idea, but where's the proof?

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Nick Werber
New Workshop at The Narayana Integrative Center

I'm excited to announce that I'll be leading a Family Constellation workshop at the Narayana Integrative Center in Greenpoint Brooklyn. It's a 4-hour afternoon workshop with an open theme. This time around my intention is to simply move with whatever attendees bring to the circle. In addition to doing personal constellations I'll have an exercise or two that I'm excited to share.

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Nick Werber