People Pleasing Detox
A self-paced course on the pattern underneath people pleasing, taught by Nick Werber. Short somatic practices and teachings you can move through at your own pace.
The only way you know how to belong is to be useful.
Self-paced · Instant access
You're the one everyone leans on. The most useful person in the room, and somehow still the one who's exhausted. People Pleasing Detox is a $17 course on the pattern underneath people pleasing (the fawn response) and the first steps out of it.
Designed for anyone whose sense of belonging depends on being useful, this course moves at whatever pace works for you. Short practices. No live calls to schedule around.
This is what it feels like
- ✓I'm the one everyone leans on. Somehow I'm still the problem.
- ✓I can read a room before I've even sat down in it.
- ✓When I set a boundary, people get furious. So I stop setting them.
- ✓The more I give, the less I seem to be worth to people.
- ✓If I'm not being useful, I don't know who I am to you.
- ✓Everything feels out of my control, except how hard I try.
- ✓I just want to be known. Instead I feel deeply unknown.
"People pleasers don't feel known. They feel deeply unknown."- Nick Werber
The Pattern Underneath It
This has a name. Fight, flight, freeze, and a lesser known fourth response: fawn. Appeasing. Accommodating. Becoming useful, because once, that's what kept you safe. It isn't low self-esteem. It isn't your personality. It's an adaptation that made sense at the time, and it can be worked with. You don't have to be anyone's black sheep for this to be your story.
This course works through:
Not a diagnosis, not a symptom list: the everyday pattern that keeps useful, over-giving people stuck in the fawn response.
Your Teacher
Nick Werber
Nick is an embodiment coach, writer, and educator with over 12 years of experience helping people move beyond rumination and into lasting change. He's a director and lead trainer at The Focalizing Institute, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to advancing somatic practices, and trained for over a decade under the institute's founder, renowned somatic psychologist Dr. Michael Picucci. His work has been featured by The Omega Institute and The Embodiment Conference, and viewed over 50 million times online.
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$17
One-time payment · Self-paced · Instant access
- ✓Fully self-paced, on your own time
- ✓Short somatic practices to notice the fawn response in your body
- ✓Brief teachings on why the pattern formed
- ✓A first practice for coming back to yourself
What's inside:
Short somatic practices to notice the fawn response in your body as it's happening.
Brief teachings on why the pattern formed and what it's protecting you from.
A first practice for coming back to yourself, when being useful has been the whole plan.
What people say about working with Nick
General feedback on Nick as a teacher and his programs, not this course specifically.
I went through this training. Nick is the real deal. I highly recommend this program.
Heather
I'm doing the class with Nick right now and it's really good work. He's a talented and knowledgeable teacher.
David C.
It's an excellent workshop, and particularly because Nick is a fantastic facilitator!
Debora F.
FAQs
▸Who is this course for?
Anyone whose sense of belonging depends on being useful: the ones everyone leans on, the fixers, the always-available ones. It's for people who grew up as the family outsider and people who didn't. No prior experience with somatic work is required.
▸Is this self-paced?
Yes, fully. You get instant access the moment you purchase, and move through it on your own schedule. No live calls, no group to sit in front of.
▸What's your refund policy?
Because this is a low-cost, instant-access digital course, all sales are final and refunds aren't offered. The moment you purchase, everything is yours to keep, so we'd rather you take a moment beforehand to make sure it's the right fit than ask for your money back after. If you have any questions before buying, feel free to reach out first. We're glad to help you decide.
You don't have to be useful
to be loved.
Self-paced · Instant access · $17. Start today, at whatever pace works for you.
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